For groom Greg Berghofer, a patient on the 16th floor palliative care unit, and bride Dawn Richards, the day was pure joy as family, friends and the palliative care team gathered to watch the couple celebrate their lives together.
The longest, shortest engagement
The miniature dollar store tin cans attached to Berghofer’s wheelchair were carefully woven with a white ribbon – attached was a “Just Married” sign – a nice touch added by Catherine Dirks, occupational therapist at Princess Margaret. A spread of fruits and vegetables, finger sandwiches, champagne and two-tiered cake was prepared for the intimate gathering.
“We’re calling it the longest, shortest engagement,” said Richards. “Most people are celebrating their Silver Anniversary by now!”
Berghofer and Richards met 25 years ago in Toronto at a mutual friend’s euchre game. Berghofer asked for a date and took her to the Planetarium to see a laser light show featuring the rock band Genesis – “It was very romantic,” said Richards.
‘Happily ever after’ starts where you make it
Berghofer’s sisters sprang into action immediately after the proposal, arranging for the cake, wedding dress, and rings, while his physiotherapy team, Dirks, and Cynthia Chung, physiotherapist, helped him prepare to sit comfortably through the ceremony and reception in a special wheelchair funded by The Princess Margaret Cancer Foundation.
Leading up to the big day, Berghofer and Richards met with Princess Margaret spiritual care counselor, Sharon Konynen, who helps guide patients and families through their cancer journey. During the ceremony, SarahRose Black, music therapist at Princess Margaret, played the violin and piano, and serenaded the couple. Black uses music to help patients on the palliative unit manage pain and anxiety Trish Murphy-Kane, Clinical Nurse Specialist placed “groom” and “bride” signage on two hospital rooms, designating areas for Berghofer and Richards — giving the day an extra special feel.
“The wedding has made everybody really happy,” said Berghofer. “There’s so much joy from my family, Dawn’s family, and the people here – it’s nice to bring joy to people who might not see it too often.”
“It’s so amazing to have that outdoor space available for patients,” said Berghofer. “It’s so peaceful and beautiful — you forget where you are and why you are here.”
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