Vanessa Freeman has never been a frequent Facebook user, but when a notification popped up asking if she would like to create a Facebook Fundraiser for her birthday she thought, why not?
Vanessa’s husband, John, had recently been admitted to the ward at Hospiscare in Exeter, and she decided she’d like to dedicate her birthday fundraiser to the charity.
“I thought I would have to do a lot of work to put the Facebook Fundraiser together, but it was really easy to fill out” Vanessa explains. “I followed their top tips, like posting regular updates, and added a little about my personal experience of Hospiscare.”
As an infrequent Facebook user, Vanessa didn’t expect much of a response from her fundraiser. But after a few days of her appeal going live, she had a huge surprise waiting for her – the fundraiser had exceeded all of her expectations, earning over £500 in its first few days. Vanessa was overwhelmed by the kindness of her friends and family.
“I cry every time I see it, it’s just so kind” she says. “It’s unbelievable how people’s kindness can be so much. It seems there are so many horrible things going on in the world so something like this is just so life-affirming. Even though we are having our own personal tragedy, the people around us are so caring.”
Vanessa decided to make the fundraiser public but did not expect the donations to increase much further. The kindness of people surprised her once again as her fundraising total exceeded her target with people that she didn’t even know donating money to Hospiscare. “I had to keep resetting the fundraising goal as the donations kept going over it!”
This is not Vanessa’s first experience of a hospice as John’s sister was cared for by a hospice in London.
“Hospices are amazing places” she says. “Just seeing everything they do for their patients at Hospiscare means so much. John feels safe here and he loves his room.”
Before John became ill, he took on running a pub with Vanessa. Over the course of five years, John’s hard work at the Chagford Inn meant that it became known for its food, with repeated recognition at the Taste of the West Awards. Food is a big part of their lives and Vanessa smiles as she recalls what John said to her when he first went to stay on the ward: “They even make custard like you do here, with vanilla pods and everything!”
For her birthday, Vanessa knew that John would want to do something for her but that he might not be able to due to his condition.
“I asked the staff on the ward if I could stay with him overnight and they set up a bed with no problems. I love that they treat patients holistically.”
Vanessa’s birthday fundraiser closed with a total of £1,352. She says: “John is the kind of person who finds beauty in everything as he was a professional photographer from the age of fifteen. There is so much beauty in this.
“No one knows when, if or how we will need services like Hospiscare. I don’t think I’ve got the words to express how wonderful it is here.”
For more information visit Hospiscare
For information on how to create a Facebook Fundraiser visit Facebook Social Good