The group was set up to address the needs of dads who are caring for or who have cared for children with life-limiting conditions. It forms part of Haven House’s Vision 2020 strategy to extend its holistic care services.
Judi Porter, Family and Community Manager at Haven House, explains:
“For many years we have run a successful Coffee Morning Group for parents where they have been able to share their experiences, develop friendships and enjoy spending time together.”
“In response to feedback from parents we have decided to set up a group for dads. For children with life-limiting conditions, it is often the case that the mum will find herself as the main carer for the child whilst the dad goes to work in the day.”
“Our coffee mornings help tackle the isolation experienced by mums, but it can be just as isolating for dads who may feel unable to share their thoughts and feelings with their work colleagues, friends and family.”
“Since launching our Dads’ Group, we have been delighted by the number of dads who have expressed an interest in being part of the group and several dads in the group have already formed friendships.”
Aasam and Mariam Alim from Ilford have been using Haven House since 2006 for their daughter, Aiza, who requires constant care due to a very rare metabolic disorder. The family accesses a range of services for Aiza, such as music therapy and respite care which gives her parents vital short breaks.
Mariam has been an active part of Haven House’s Coffee Morning Group for many years and Aasam is a founder of the Dads’ Group, which he really enjoys.
“The Dads’ Group is really all about sharing experiences and trying to bring out our experiences while having fun. It is a great way to meet other dads in similar situations.”
For more information visit Haven House Dads’ Group