World Cancer Day: “It’s good to talk”

Categories: People & Places.

Today is World Cancer Day, the international day that aims to improve education and raise awareness of cancer. Scott Prideaux, who has pancreatic cancer, shares his experience of living with the condition and how volunteering at St Luke’s Hospice in Plymouth has given him a positive focus.

When Scott received his diagnosis in November 2017 he started looking for information about his condition. He says:

“When I was diagnosed I was keen to find out as much information as possible about pancreatic cancer and through social media I tried to find people in similar situations so I could gain an idea of what my future might look like. While there’s an awful lot of information out there, I quickly discovered that there are very few men I could contact and have that conversation with. It is mainly women who are openly discussing these things online.

“It also became clear that the way ahead is uncertain, that there are no rules for this type of thing. I could have another year – or it could be five.”

Scott devotes several days a week to volunteering with the hospice’s fundraising team. It was a desire to ‘do something positive and give something back’ that resulted in his decision to volunteer, generously giving time to help staff with a myriad of tasks including preparations for events such as Men’s Day Out and drafting thank-you letters to supporters.

“It has really helped me to have something else to focus on other than my health, which I think is important” he says.

Crucially, Scott has also found time to consider his future wishes, talk openly with his wife and children and involve them in his planning, which has helped provide more peace of mind for all of them at a vulnerable time.

He explains: “It’s important to have everything documented and any issues put to bed, so I have organised my finances and moved all our utility accounts into my wife’s name. I also had a will drawn up during St Luke’s ‘Make a Will Week’, where local solicitors give an hour of their time for free in return for a donation to the charity.

“I think in situations like mine, it’s really important to talk to your partner and also to involve your children so that everyone is with you.”

Scott also shared his feelings about having a terminal diagnosis yet receiving underlying messages around ‘fighting it’, when the power to change the diagnosis is not within his control.

“I want to ask, how do you suggest I do that? I can’t see it and I can’t punch it – there’s nothing tangible. What I can do is research and ask questions. And I can take comfort and support from what I’ve received from oncologists and nurses to make myself appreciate that I’ve had what there is and that I’m doing all I can.”

For more information visit St Luke’s Hospice and World Cancer Day